For some guys, the idea of dating an older lady is somewhat of a fantasy. The older the better, age is just a number after all… isn’t it? The market is pretty poor for mature women to look for a man of her age, most are happily married and the ones who aren’t have the female gold diggers sniffing at their ankles. So as the competition is so low, give your confidence a boost and live your fantasy.
There are a few vital things you need to remember if you are to start dating a granny:
- Confidence: If it’s one thing that she will find attractive, its confidence. Not arrogance, there is a fine line here. Impress her, stand up tall and be a man. She doesn’t want to be with someone who can’t hold eye contact or a conversation so scrub up on these before your first meet up.
- Be true to your age: She will be looking for a man who makes her laugh and makes her feel young again. Don’t work too hard at trying to impress her with your maturity; she wants to have a fun time as much as you.
- Traditional qualities still count: Keep with the traditional ways, open doors for her, call her first, pay for the bill – all the things you should do but tend to let slip. She wants to be ravished, show her you can do that.
- Understand one another needs: Before getting too involved make sure you both know where you stand, whether you are both looking for just some casual fun or if you want a relationship. If the latter remember that family members could find it difficult to understand at first, so be cautious with your approach.
- Adult relationship: If you enjoy drama and jealousy in a relationship, you won’t find it here. These women know what they like and how they like it. She won’t go for you if she isn’t interested; if problems arise she will be wise enough to walk away before emotions get involved. Remember she will have many more years’ experience than you and has had her fair share of relationship dramas that she do not want to re-live.
- Dominating: You might find that she can be a little dominating in the bedroom, which let’s be honest, you will most probably enjoy. She knows exactly what she likes and how she likes it. So if you aren’t afraid or ashamed to be shown around the bedroom department like it’s your first time, enjoy it! With experience being in her court she will have you wrapped around her little finger in no time!
- Energy levels: So these can differ between each woman. Keep in mind that she isn’t your age, even if she does have the sex drive of a 20 something year old she may not have the stamina of it anymore. Take things slow; let her tell you when she is ready. Obviously I mean ready for the next date outing.
- Just be yourself: That’s all she asks for, to have a fun relationship with a guy much younger than her. To enjoy the freedom and get back to her youth.